A Homily on Matthew 1:18–24 : When Joseph Awoke, God Was With Us ( 21-12-25)

A reflection on Matthew 1:18–24, showing how Joseph’s awakening brings Emmanuel into family and community life.(21-12-25)

Praise be to Jesus Christ

There is a well-known African story told by an anthropologist who was studying the life of tribal children. One day, he placed a basket full of fruits under a tree and told the children that whoever reached it first could take all the fruits. When he gave the signal, something unexpected happened. The children did not run alone. They held each other’s hands and ran together. When they reached the basket, they sat down and shared the fruits equally. The anthropologist was surprised and asked why no one tried to win alone. The children looked at him and replied with one simple word, “Ubuntu.” It means, “I am because we are.” They could not imagine happiness while others were left behind. That story reveals a deep truth about being human.

This truth helps us understand today’s Gospel in a new way. Matthew tells us, “When Joseph awoke from sleep, he did as the angel of the Lord commanded him.” Joseph’s awakening was not just a personal decision. It was an awakening that saved others. When Joseph awoke, Mary was protected. When Joseph awoke, the child was given a home. When Joseph awoke, God’s promise found space in the world. Joseph did not think only about himself, his reputation, or his future. His awakening was Ubuntu lived in silence. “I cannot be safe unless they are safe and My life is not mine alone.

This way of living is deeply rooted in the Old Testament. In the first reading, King Ahaz stands before danger and fear. God invites him to trust, to ask for a sign. Ahaz refuses, not because he is holy, but because he is afraid to place his future in God’s hands. Yet God does not abandon the people. He gives a sign meant for all, not for one man alone. “The virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and shall call his name Emmanuel.” Emmanuel means God with us. From the beginning, God’s plan was never individual salvation alone, but shared life. Joseph understands this when he awakes. He realizes that God’s presence enters the world through relationships, through family, through shared responsibility.
We see this same pattern throughout the Old Testament. When Abraham obeys, his obedience blesses nations. When Moses listens, the entire people are freed. When David repents, a kingdom is restored. In the Bible, one person’s awakening always saves many. Joseph stands in this long line of silent servants who understood that faith is never lived alone.
This speaks strongly to our daily family life. Many families suffer not because of poverty, sickness, or any another grave issues, but mainly because people live only for themselves. “My comfort, my time, my opinion.” However, Ubuntu challenges this and St. Joseph challenges this. Advent calls us to wake up from self centered living to other centered living. A father’s faith strengthens children and a mother’s patience shapes the home. One person praying regularly can slowly change the atmosphere of a whole family. One person choosing forgiveness can heal years of hurt. Like Joseph, we may never give long speeches, but let our choices speak loudly.
Saint John Paul the Second once said that the family is a community of persons. Joseph lived this truth quietly. When he awoke, he accepted that his life was tied to others. Because of that awakening, Emmanuel entered the world not through power, but through a home. God was with us because one man woke up and obeyed.
As Christmas draws near, Advent asks us a simple question. Am I awake only for myself, or awake for others. When one heart wakes up to God, many lives are touched. That is Ubuntu, That is Joseph, That is Emmanuel.

Lord Jesus help us to live for one another Amen.

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